Guys are swimming. Guys are sailing.
After a week of gray skies, wind, and rain, the 55 degree weather and partly sunny skies came as a real relief this afternoon. I got out and sat outside for a while today. After I straightened out my patio rug and made sure nothing had completely blown away. Even the gulls were back on the water this morning.
And today's views across the sound have been pretty spectacular. The Fort Worden lighthouse is a good two miles from here and is clearly visible this afternoon.
I've been aware of how my writing affects me this week. It's pretty amazing. Theo, the character I'm writing about, has taken up photography. I find that I'm taking more pictures than I've been taking, even though most are very near the trailer. It's really neat to see the sailboats and cargo ships plying the water. I've been getting up around 6:30 in the morning, just as it's getting light out with sunrise at about 7:15 these days. The first thing I see in the morning is the ferry making it's first trip across the Sound.
#1 After loving my parents, my
siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends, now I have started loving myself.
#2 I just realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world
does not rest on my shoulders.
#3 I now stopped bargaining with vegetables &
fruits vendors. A few pennies more is not going to burn a hole in my pocket but
it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.
#4 I pay my waitress a big tip. The extra money
might bring a smile to her face. She is toiling much harder for a living than
me
#5 I stopped telling the elderly that they've
already narrated that story many times. The story makes them walk down the
memory lane & relive the past.
#6 I have learned not to correct people even when I
know they are wrong. The onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is
more precious than perfection.
#7 I give compliments freely & generously.
Compliments are a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me.
And a small tip for the recipient of a compliment, never, NEVER turn it down,
just say "Thank You"
#8 I have learned not to bother about a crease or a
spot on my shirt. Personality speaks louder than appearances.
#9 I walk away from people who don't value me. They
might not know my worth, but I do.
#10 I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun
me in the rat race. I am not a rat & neither am I in any race.
#11 I am learning not to be embarrassed by my
emotions. It’s my emotions that make me human.
#12 I have learned that it's better to drop the ego
than to break a relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with
relationships I will never be alone.
#13 I have learned to live each day as if it's the
last. After all, it might be the last.
#14 I am doing what makes me happy. I am
responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to myself.
I'm not saying this is the way I live, but there are some gems within it that I will and do aspire to.
Be safe. Be well. And wear your damned mask!
"Mother, Father, kindly disregard this letter." Nice Allen Sherman quote. While I am writing, do you think you might change the body.color from #666666 to #0 so we get black instead of light grey? It's hard to read against a white background. Thanks, Ed
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